Inspiration from famous thinkers and writers
To uplift clients on their journey of learning, growing and healing, here is inspiration in the form of quotes from famous thinkers and writers that have positively influenced many. As implied by the opening of John’s Gospel, “In the beginning was the Word”, well-chosen words have great creative power, though when words are misinterpreted, conflict arises. The late lamented Dr. Marshall B. Rosenberg, founder of Non-Violent (or Compassionate) Communication, titled one of his most influential books ‘Speak Peace in a World of Conflict: What You Say Next Will Change Your World‘. May the words of these great thinkers and writers bring peace to your inner world.
Carlos Castaneda (1925-1998) on the path which has heart
from The Teachings of Don Juan (1968)
Ask yourself, and yourself alone, one question. Does this path have a heart?
If it does, the path is good; if it doesn’t, the path is of no use.
Both paths lead nowhere, but one has a heart; the other doesn’t.
One makes for a joyful journey; as long as you follow it, you are one with it.
The other will make you curse your life.
One makes you strong; the other weakens you.
Mark Twain (1835-1910) on disappointment
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines. Sail away.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore, dream, discover
The 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet
If you do not have the capacity to love yourself, then there is simply no basis on which to build a sense of caring toward others. Love for yourself does not mean that you are indebted to yourself. Rather, the capacity to love oneself or be kind to oneself should be based on a very fundamental fact of human existence: that we all have a natural tendency to desire happiness and avoid suffering. Once this basis exists in relation to oneself, one can extend it to other sentient beings.
Marilyn Ferguson (1938-2008)
Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom.
Thomas a Kempis (1380-1471)
Endeavour to be always patient of the faults and imperfections of others, for thou hast many faults and imperfections of thine own that require forbearance.
Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.
First keep the peace within yourself, then you can also bring peace to others.
Who has a harder fight than he who is striving to overcome himself?
Of two evils we must always choose the least.
Remember that lost time does not return.
(author unknown, possibly Irish)
In life there are only two things to worry about: whether you are well, or whether you are sick.
Now if you are well, you have nothing to worry about. And if you are sick, you only have two things to worry about: whether you get better, or whether you die.
If you get better, you have nothing to worry about. And if you die, you only have two things to worry about: whether you go to heaven, or whether you go to hell.
Now if you go to heaven, you have nothing to worry about. And if you go to hell, you’ll be so busy shaking hands with your old friends that you won’t have time to worry.
So why worry?
Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948)
You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.
Be the change you want to see in the world.
As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world — that is the myth of the atomic age — as in being able to remake ourselves.
An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind.
It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
The battle between two wolves
An old Cherokee told his grandson: “My son, there is a battle between two wolves inside us all. One is Evil: it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is Good: it is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindness, empathy and truth.”
The boy thought about it, and asked: “Grandfather, which wolf wins?”
And the grandfather quietly replied: “The one you feed.”
Jelaluddin Rumi (1207-1273)
Persian poet, jurist, theologian and Sufi mystic.
The Guest House
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival
— a joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness —
comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture,
still treat each guest honourably.
He may be clearing you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I will meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase ‘each other’, make no sense.
from ‘A Return to Love’
(often incorrectly attributed to Nelson Mandela.)
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It’s our light, not the darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not in some of us, it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Eugene T. Gendlin on development
One develops when the desire to live and do things stirs deep down, when one’s own hopes and desires stir, when one’s own perceptions and evaluations carry a new sureness, when the capacity to stand one’s ground increases, and when one can consider others and their needs. The last item here is not contradictory to the others. One comes to feel one’s separate existence solidly enough to want to be close to others as they really are. It is development when one is drawn to something that is directly interesting, and when one wants to play. It is development when something stirs inside that has long been immobile and silent, cramped and almost dumb, and when life’s energy flows in a new way.